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Till The End

Posted on October 20, 2013 at 4:20 AM

This may be hard to do however I am going to continue to share the journey Frank started it is what he wanted......

 

I held my husband's hand until he took his last breathe. Wow something I said I would do however it was so very hard. This was something so very special for me however after I stepped away from him it began to destroy me. The nurse came from hospice to pronounce him and then call the funeral home to come pick him up. When the funeral home came to pick him up they asked me a very odd question. Did I want my husband's head covered when he left? I was a bit freaked out by this question and said no. They took my husband away and then family started to leave. I slept for about two hours and then had to go with my father in law to sit with the director to plan my husband's services. My husband wanted to be cremated which they say is "cheaper" and omg that is not true. What my husband wanted was simple however when all was said and done the total was just under $5,000.00. Make sure you invest in life insurance no matter how young you are. I am very glad I had my father-in-law with me as it was something that just seemed so surreal. I made sure my husband had everything he wanted and then went home. I do not even recall much after my father in law dropped me off it was as if I was in a daze. I did however sleep in my bed again for the first time. Today I went to the funeral home to drop off 3 Notre Dame Jersey's for him to wear. Why three? He never told me which one he wanted so I made sure he had all three I made sure he had his Notre Dame Visor as he wore it through much of his fight. I gave him his Notre Dame blanket as I did not want him to be cold. I dropped off the urns and the music my husband chose. While I was there I had decided to see my husband one last time and I was glad I did because the image of him once he passed was a really hard image. Today I saw him looking so peaceful. I put all my #FranksFight wristbands on his arm, gave him a kiss, fixed his hair, and then put my hand out took his arm and slapped my hand with his and said see you later. Some people may find that morbid however my husband was a jokester and we had the same sick sense of humor so for us that is quite hysterical Tonite I and a bunch of family members watched the UFC PPV and we have Gareth to thank as he offered to pay for it and did. It was so nice to do something my husband loved with a bunch of his family. I continue to read all comments however they are often hard to read and I have to stop and find something else to do. I appreciate all the comments and thank you all for them. They are hard to read because my husband was that great of a guy and I start to cry so I have to read them a little at a time. As always thank you for supporting our family. RIP BABE

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